New haircuts? Why not?

Yes, why NOT ? Having new haircut can bring a new atmosphere around you. So what is the trend for 2010? Many of the top hairstylists were asked their opinion on what will be the most popular hairstyles in 2010. They have 3 tips for this season :

1. Diversity
Diversity is the key thing for 2010 .There will always be people who like long hair and those who like short hair, so cuts and styles will be adapted to the individual. Everything is a strong look that makes a big statement.

2. Versatility
Versatility will dominate in 2010.Versatility is a theme or idea for 2010 haircuts which more than one hairdresser predicts.We’ve grown accustomed to change and we will want to change our hair on a whim. Haircuts that allow styles to be easily maintained and yet allow maximum flexibility will be popular.

3. 2010 Popular Hair Color
Color is a mix of extremes, then what is the fashionable hair color in 2010. Bright shades created with metallic color will make anyone stand out. A more subdued look will also be popular, where color is blended for a soft, finished look.

The example is the strong look from short haircut of Rihanna. Yes, Rihanna seems to be the trendsetter of short haircuts. Some people say, Rihanna the BEST HAIRSTYLES IDEAS for 2010 ! Look at these

Amazing isn't it? You don't like Rihanna's style? Don't worry.. Check these out !

What are the keywords of 2010 trends for short hairstyles? Here they are....

* pixies
* piecey layers
* bold color
* asymmetry
* bowl-shaped cuts
* texture
* retro
* funky bangs
* big hair

And what about you who want to keep your long or medium hair? That's okay. A retro wave with fresh look, one side bang, or straight haircuts can light up your day in this 2010. Look at these...

Emo haircuts, that allows the expression you style and creativeness also become 2010 trend. The basic looks of Emo, which are short, or very long and dark (or light) hairstyles, looks great in asymmetricla lines and different color. But most people prefer to dye them black or totally light

A little touch of color dye can make your hair even more beautiful. So you have to make it blond? No ! If you have black hair, then it's your luck. Many celebrities dyed their hair become black to make a strong and independent looks. If your hair is black, try to give some metallic or light shades. It will make anyone stand out looking for your sexy haircuts. Look at these celebrities who dyed their color become black, nearly white, or just a simple natural color.

So have you got any ideas for new haircuts in 2010 ? New haircuts? WHY NOT ? Read more!

A little corner of Love

Few days ago, one of my best friends called me. We did a loonngggg chit chat because we haven’t contacted each others for months. Minutes later, we began to do girl talk, who dates with who, who got break up, who married who. But when I asked about her boyfriend, she got quite. Great, I think I did mistake here… I ask again, “What happened?”. She cried.. Crap !

Then she started to tell her story. Few months ago, she already broke up because her boyfriend did affair behind her. Not long time, she found the new one. Unfortunately, this new one is her ex’s friend in office. A little chaos happened. A little fight appeared. Then my friend (let’s call her A) tells her new one (Let’s call him… Z) what she has ‘done’ with her ex. Like what she guessed, Z was angry so bad and decided to separate. Dunno what happened, but they still contact each other. My friend, A, never ask about Z’s true feeling. They go together, watch movies together, but Z never say that he wants to be with A again. Then I ask.. 

Me         : Have you ever ask him if he wants to be with you again?

A             : I have

Me         : The answer ?

A             : He said “I don’t know.. maybe later”. I can’t ask him again. It’s me who did the wrong thing.

Me         : What have you done? You didn’t have any idea that your ex will have another girl right?

A             : Yeah.. I know.. but I don’t want to make Z hate me because asking about our relationship

Me          : How long is that ‘later’ ?

A             : I don’t know ! I don’t dare to ask him more… It’s me.. got it? It’s me who acted like a jerk…

Me         : Do you see yourself as a ‘trash’ ?

A             : In this case… maybe….

Me         : Are you a ‘trash’ ?
A             : Of course not  ! (then she quite)
Maybe.. I shouldn’t see myself like a ‘trash’ right? … Do you think that Z is a still a ‘boy’ ? Who still can’t see me and approved me as who I am? (she begin to cry..)
Me         : Maybe…  Hmmm…. Does Z still care about you?

A             : I think so.. Sometimes if he’s not busy, he ask me to hang out together, dinner… and.. sometimes grab my hand and ask me to sit near him…

Me         : But he always answer “I don’t know” ? Does he only looking for you when he’s getting bored?

A             : Yes…. And.. yes..

Me          : Do you really love Z ?

A             : Yes !

Me          : Do you want to marry him? And live with him forever?

A             : Yes, of course  !

Me         : Why ?

A             : It’s like…. I see everything I want from a guy on him !

Me          : Really?

A             : Yeaa…. Not all. He’s not good in making decision.. including his feeling itself..

Me           : Can you live forever with  a guy like that? OR.. A ‘boy’ ? (A laugh..)

A             : I don’t think so…

Me           : Then why do you want to marry him?

A             : Because he’s the best for me ! I don’t think I can’t found any other guy like him…

Me          : Are you sure? (quite)
IF.. after you marry him, he still bad in making any decision.. even for his own feeling, will you leave him?
A             : How can I leave him? Divorce? Impossible ! It’s a shame to make any divorce (Yes, it’s true.. some people in Indonesia still look divorce as a shame)
Me           : If it’s POSSIBLE, will you LEAVE him?

A             : ……………. I can’t live with a man who can’t make decision…

Me         : Then why you marry with that man if you know you can’t live with a man like that for forever?

She began to cry and ask me over and over what she has to do. I said,

“Marrying is a LIFE commitment not just a game. You can’t do “Undo” or press ‘ctrl+u’ or “ctrl+z’. You marry with that man, you ‘marry’ with the whole family… forever.."

She said it’s too hard for now to think like that. Her heart’s still trembling. She said that she really loves Z, but she can’t stand if Z doesn’t change his that-bad character of him. Then I said..

“Think carefully. See yourself years after this. Can you live with a man like that? For everyday? The decision is yours…”

Isn’t life confusing sometime? She Loves But She Hates in the same time. I haven’t married yet, but I’ve seen so many people got divorce because they married someone only for ‘love’ sake. Love makes them blind. Love makes them forget what is “marry” mean. Love makes them forget that ‘marrying’ is a Life commitment, a contract that has no period. We read many divorcing in news, especially celebrities.

If that what adults think about marrying, maybe we should learn from kids who still see marrying as a precious treasure that will live forever… Read more!

Merry Christmas 2009

Yap, Merry Christmas everybody !

Give thanks to God that have blessed us until now and may God filled this world with joy, blessing, peace, and LOVE. 

One song that pop up in my mind now is "Heal The World" by Michael Jackson. I don't know why.. But for me, this world need a miracle healing. So why not ask Him to heal this world. People said that Christmas is full of miracle, right?


Here, I never put any Christmas decoration as I'm the only one who is Christian in my house. So now I'm thinking.. What item that you think the most related to Christmas? For me, the most related to Christmas is '25th December' and 'St. Claus'. How about you? Read more!

My 1st award :)

Thanks for  JavaBisnis | Bisnis & Hobby Blog who has given this award to ShareThings.  This is my first Award from my blogger friend.

Actually this is "backlink- award". If you got this Award, it means you got backlink. You can get dozens backlink in no time if you follow the instruction properly. So, I decided to give this Award to my beloved blogger friend :)

1  Waomdb

2  Multibrand

3  fatursunshine

4  Panjibux

5  Ozenks

6  Mengenal Kayu

7  Sharing Knowledge

8  Neutral Blogger

9  Pendi Blog

10 Tulisan Byasa

INSTRUCTION !
 - Anyone who get this award have to post this article and put these below links to your post ! "kick" number 1 from the list, so the number 2 can become number 1, number 3 become number 2, and so on. You'll see that you only has 9 links. Put your blog on last number (number 10)
 - Also, you have to share this award to 10 people. And don't forget to tell them to follow the instruction also !

1. irfanrasyid
2. TUTORIAL DESAIN GRAFIS
3. Blog napi Belog
4. Not Yet Titlelized
5. Pras Free
6. Taekwondo Indonesia
7. masterGOmaster
8. Blogger Kuningan
9. Javabis99 | Bisnis & Hobby Blog
10. ShareThings
    

You have to be fair. Don't put your blog on number 2. It has to be from number 10. If you can share this award to 5 people, you'll get 1.953.125 backlink (this only happened if you start from number 10). Here is the description

When you are in number 10, your baclink = 1
number 9, your backlink = 5
number 8, your backlink = 25
number 7, your backlink = 125
number 6, your backlink = 625
number 5, your backlink = 3,125
number 4, your backlink = 15,625
number 3, your backlink = 78,125
number 2, your backlink = 390,625
number 1, your backlink = 1,953,125

If someone visit any blog/website of your "downline", you'll get backlink also :) Isn't it nice?

For people whose name I mentioned above, feel free to grab it :) and don't forget to post it back. You can post it in English or Indonesia, or any other language you prefer to.

Amelia

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True Love Never Ends

Have you ever heard that quote, "True Love Never Ends" ? I think most of you ever heard about that.

Today, at a shopping mall near my home, I saw a couple that caught my eyes. Not because their clothes, not because their money (LOL), but because their age. Both of them are old, maybe around 70-80 years old. They walk around the mall and held each other's hand. Sometimes they have to stop because the woman need a little rest. I watching them from far while eating my potato balls. Then I saw something that I won't forget....

When the woman stopped, her husband said something to her. I couldn't hear what he said to her, but the woman pointed at her leg. Maybe her leg's hurt. Then her husband said something again and pointed a seat. That woman looked at where her husband pointing at and thought for a while, before she smiled to her husband and began to walk. That man slipped his hand to her arm and help her walk to the nearest seat.

That moment happened less than 5 minutes. But that was enough. I saw them walked to their seat slowly, not disturbed by the crowd. They talked at each other and sometimes with a little laugh. It's like they just met each other yesterday ! If someone talked about, "True Love Never Ends", that's them ! Even though they are not young anymore, their eyes said I Love You. Even though they are not young anymore, when they smiled at each other, I saw the most beautiful smile I've ever seen.

I'm so thankful that my Dad came late. If not, maybe I couldn't see this "less than 5 minutes" moment today. Less than 5 minutes, maybe just 2 minutes but enough to taught me about "True Love" more than any best seller books and talk show about Love in this world :)

*********True Love Never Ends**********

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